Poo on the Floor

There was poo on the floor.

Is there a better way to say that? Perhaps. But let’s be honest.
The place stunk. It was filthy. Smelly. Dirty. It was unsanitary. The air was filled with maddening, disgusting flies. It wasn’t fit for humans. I’ts why the animals were there.

Animals. Not friendly puppies and kittens, but cows, sheep, pigs, livestock. It was a barn. Actually a barn by today’s standards is probably an upgrade. Been in one lately? Cover your nose from the smell? Did you step gingerly to avoid stepping in the dung?
How would you like to eat dinner in there? Sit? Sleep?

How about having a baby?

If you were going to choose where to have a baby where would you choose? A nice, warm, sanitary hospital room with friendly, helpful nurses and doctors to help? A hospital with sanitized emergency instruments? Or even at home in the safety of your comfortable bed with the security of family and a mid-wife close by?

Is there any place worse to have a baby than a barn?
Why would anyone choose a dirty, smelly, unsanitary… barn. Yes, that is what is was. A place to house the animals. If you did have to have your baby in a barn, would you be excited and tell all your friends? “Hey, how wonderful! I had a baby in a barn next to the pigs and the cows!”
Or, would you feel humiliated. How lowly. What would your friends think?

"And they laid him in a manger." A manger. A manger is what the animals were fed from. Is that right? Did they really do that? Would you? This is not the cute, cuddly scenes we see in the Macy's store window. This was real life. A baby, in a barn, laying in the animals feeding area.

Doesn’t make much sense then does it that God, choosing to come to this earth and live with us would choose such a place to start out. God, the King of Kings, creator of the universe, omnipetent… gets born next to… the sheep and goats.

How humiliating.

Shouldn't he have been in the Presidential Palace? The Plaza Suite?

Who would have thought? They were looking for a king and missed the King. They were looking for a prince, a ruler, a powerful man, a mighty man, a rich man. They would never have thought.

Christmas. Santa? New toys? Reindeer?
What is the real meaning? What are you looking for this Christmas? Or Who are you looking for? Find it? Find Him? Maybe we should all take another look.

Free Christian Dating Site

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SingleC is a great free Christian dating site made up of Christian singles all in search of Christian dating, pen pals, love and eventually marriage. This site allows Christian singles to meet and greet other like minded singles that share similar Christian values and beliefs.

The opportunities are endless! Also, you can choose to make your Christian relationship as serious as you like, or even as friendly as you like!

On SingleC.com you can find such tools for Christian dating -

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Christian Love

Christian Love

Christian Singles involved in online Christian dating services are in desperate need of a reminder to pay attention to what is love, and what is not. The most common misconception members have is that love is feelings and an excitement caused by another single Christian's presence. it is most likely to be infatuation, lust, and self-indulgence. The experience that many Christian singles refer to as love is exactly the opposite.

There is excitement from a new Christian dating relationship, or just in meeting other single Christians of the opposite sex. This thrill is not love, but the human drive to be connected with another.

Christian singles need to realize that love is not always fun. The real test of Christian love comes when sacrafices are shared and used to deepen the relationship. If a couple has not have any challenges in their relationship, they have not arrived at the cornerstone to love. It is in the hardships that love begins to mold the two into a real Christian relationship.

Love is a commitment built upon trust, proven over time to build compatibility and mutually serving interest and growth. It seeks the best possible conditions for the other person’s benefit, sometimes at one’s own expense. It is not selfish, crying for attention, and complaining when things do not go their way.(Corinthians chapter 13)

Meet Christian Singles at the Single Christian Network

More Success Stories

Everyday somes enters into a successfull relationship. Whithout fail, we receive a success story every single day. Here are just a few of them:

"Just wanted you to know that in simply one week...God brought the answer to my prayers for a Godly man through your site...I will gladly share about it with anyone who is searching!" B.N.

"I just wanted to tell you that this by far is the most effective site I've ever joined. I've gotten quite a few halos and emails in the less than three weeks I've been here. That's never happened before in any dating or friendship site I've joined, Christian or secular. I really am enjoying myself and the friends I'm connecting with." C.S.

"The site has been a blessing to me, and I have found the perfect person for me. I was just about to give up on the internet as a source of finding someone when I met the most wonderful man I have ever known. Thank you!" K.R.

"I found someone the first time we connected. We are neighbors and did not know it. Thanks."L.S.

"Thanks to SingleC I found my soulmate! Thank you and God bless you." R.A .

"I'm so thankful for this site. Thru this site I found the person that GOD reserved for me. I would like to switch off my ad-profile from this site. Thank you so much and MORE POWER TO YOU GUYS!" M.L.

"I would like to confirm my cancelation with SingleC, because I found my soul mate thought this Website. Thanks and God bless you." R.A.

"I would like to let you know I've met someone special on your site. Thank you for the service you offer Christians." P.D.

"Praise God. I have found the love of my life. Thank you for all you have done. God bless." S.M.

"I have found the love of my life. God chose to use this method for whatever reason and we are just greatful that it has happened. We are CRAZY in love and plan to marry in the near future. Thank You so Much." R.R.

"I got my soulmate from GOD through your link here. I am very happy with him. Thank you for that. GBU" L.J.

"Hello!! I wanted to write and tell you how God used your site to bring my husband and I together! He was going to cancel his account the very day I found his profile and wrote to him, but he said the Lord told him to leave it on a while longer. I had been very disappointed in other sites, and after prayer, felt strongly impressed of the Lord to re-subscribe to SingleC. We began corresponding in Feb. and by Easter knew beyond a shadow of a doubt that the Lord had brought us together to join our paths as one! We talked every night 4-6 hours!! We met June 5th, were officially engaged June 7th and married Aug 7th!. We had both waited a long time - I was 33 and my husband was 37 when we got married. The right man is definitely worth waiting for, no matter how long the wait!! We had a dream 10-day honeymoon, and just celebrated our anniversary! The Lord has blessed us with two beautiful daughters. I stand amazed at the hand of the Lord in orchestrating our romance, and am so thankful for SingleC!" B.C.

"I met my girlfriend on SingleC.com, and will be popping the question next week... Thank you!!! I will definitely let you know how it turns out." D.J.

"We are married now. We met on your site in June, got married in November. Thank you SingleC." J.D.

"I joined SingleC a year ago and from that experience, met the woman who is now my fiance." K.S.

"I have great news! I have met another member and we are officially an item you could say. We have agreed to explore what God has in store for us. It is truly a miracle how we met on this site, and see a very bright and long future together. I want to thank everyone for all the help since I've been a member. But at this time, I feel the need to cancel my membership so I can stay honest to her." B.K.

"Keep up the great work. (I encourage people who are trial members to subscribe!) I think you all have the best site. May God continue to bless you all. "D.M."

"Could you cancel my membership? I have met many wonderful people, and one lady in particular who I have a special relationship with, thanks for maintaining a high moral character in your work!" N.L

"I met my husband on SingleC and there was just a little article about us in the Cincinnati Enquirer this past Sunday mentioning how we met on SingleC. We met in July of 2003. We are very grateful to SingleC and we have a terrific marriage! Thanks, SingleC - we are truly blessed and you were a huge part of that!" C.T.

"I was skeptical, but then I met someone on your site and she is a beautiful Christian women and I could not be happier." P.S.

Be Safe. Don't be Scammed

While we would like to think that everyone that would frequent a Christian site would be honest and trustworthy, we know that there are those out there who are dishonest.

First, be aware of the most common scam with internet dating. It is generally someone pretending to be a foreign specialist working in Nigeria, UK or some other country. After they establish some quick correspondence with you, they fall in love -- nearly over night. They ask for money for a visa to fly to see you or they ask for money for a plane ticket. Or they ask for money for their sick relatives, or some other tragic event. Or they will tell you that their employer pays them with Money Orders and they can't cash them in Nigeria. They will send you the Money Orders and ask you to deposit them into your bank account and then wire the money to them via Western Union. Usually they say to keep some money for your trouble. Needless to say, those Money Orders are no good, and not even worth the paper they're printed on.

There are several ways to spot these scammers. Here are some things to look for...


They are over eager to get your email address.
They often use language such as ""Hello Dearest," and "Dear Lovely,"
They might claim to be a doctor or engineer, yet there will be misspelled words scattered about.
They use words like "mum" for "mom." This is normal in the UK and other places, but if they are claiming to be in the USA then it is a red flag.
They often say their parent(s) died and they are an orphan.
The profile says they are in the USA - but the first note you get says they are on "business" in Nigeria or the UK.
They seem to fall in love with you overnight after just a couple of emails.
And, of course... the biggest red flag is when they ask for money.

So, how do you stay safe. Here are some suggestions.

First: Use our mail system. Nobody can know anything about you other than what you tell them. Use our mail system until you are 100% comfortable with the other party.
Do not give out your email address or home phone number to anyone until you, again, are 100% comfortable.
Ask us! We have ways to check where someone is logging in from. If in doubt - ask. You can ask here.
Look for descrepencies. Do they claim to be a doctor but have trouble spelling? Do they change their story between messages?
Never, ever, ever... send money to anyone. Did we say "never, ever" yet? Once more... Never, ever, ever send anyone any money. OK?
Get comfortable. Take your time. A real relationship takes time. Don't be in a hurry. Be patient. If that person is the special one they will be here tomorrow.
Did we mention the money thing yet? Don't send money. Ever.

So what we doing to keep you safe?
We review every profile that comes through. We check every IP address. If the application says USA and the IP address shows somewhere else, then that application is deleted and never processed and that IP address is blocked.
We are currently blocking several countries from even accessing our website. That includes some African countries and some from East Asia.
Having said that... we do make mistakes. Some applications do slip through that we missed. So be safe... ask us for verification of anyone and we can re-check. Use our mail system. Ask questions. Look for descrepencies.
And, of course... Don't send anyone money. If anyone asks... report it.

Online Dating Tips for Christians

Christian Online dating is one of the easiest ways to meet other single Christians. Simply join an online dating site, create an account, and you’re good to go. But there are just a few tips that will make this naturally fun ride a little less bumpy. Here we go!

Create a separate email, and choose an address that does not reveal your real name. This gives you privacy, and also helps you keep your business and personal correspondence separate. Considering that you may get hundreds of emails a day, you’ll appreciate that kind of organization. Don’t give your private information in your profile or early on in your correspondence. This includes your last name, personal email, home address, work address, or position and company. And if you want to talk to each other on the phone, sign up for a service that will block your number from Caller ID, or talk on the cell phone instead.

As Christian you should be honest in your ads and email correspondence.

Don’t answer emails on the same day. You don’t want to look too desperate. Wait a bit, whet their appetite, and let them know you have a life outside of the Internet. A two to three day wait is just right: you’re not being rude, but you don’t look too needy, either. Besides, when they’re waiting, they’re interest grows: they’ll be imagining what you said, wondering about your reaction.

If you do decide to meet up with someone you met through Internet dating, meet in a public place and inform a friend where you’re going. Schedule it in for lunch or coffee, rather than dinner. At least he won’t have to bring you home and find out where you live, and if the date bombs it’s easier to think of the excuse that you have a meeting. For additional safety, you can even ask some friends to have lunch in the same restaurant (they’ll probably be curious about him anyway!” Watch out for warning signs that the person you’re taking to is, to put it mildly, “a little nuts.” This includes flashes of temper, being pressuring or controlling, rude and demeaning remarks, inconsistent facts about age, interests, employment, etc., refusal to give direct answers. You can also actively try to “test” the person’s consistency by intentionally making a mistake when referring to something he said in the past. For example, if he said that he had a Labrador Retriever when he was growing up in a farm in Texas, casually say in a line, “Oh, I saw the most adorable sheepdog in the pet store, and I thought of you!”

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Christian Dating

If you are a Christian single, and want to find a good Christian partner it can be a task. To make your life easier you could consider a Christian online dating service. Christian singles are able to find true love online every day.

What would be easier than getting yourself a cup of your favorite beverage, and logging in to a Christian dating service looking at the profiles of other Christian singles? Finding other singles in your area while offline can a bit of a search. An online dating service is the perfect place to start interacting with other Christian singles if you have moved to a new area and don’t know anyone.

They have chat rooms where it's easy to make tons of new friends. Bible study partners are often looked for here, and there’s plenty to learn from the more experienced Christians. Young Christians look to these chat rooms to learn, and discover more about their faith. Again, this is something that can be difficult to do with an online Christian dating service.

The other advantage you have over meeting Christians without the internet is they are all there looking for friendship or romance. It cuts out all the guessing if someone is actually single. This allows you to use all your effort concentrated on making new friends or finding love interests. Most popular Christian dating services can have up to half a million singles.

You can find many reviews online for Christian dating services. Once you have read the reviews you'll be in a position to choose where you would like to create a profile. After that you will be allowed to start your free trial, and get to know the service you have chosen. Free trials are a great way to test the service to see what singles they have in your area.

Once you see a few Christian singles you’re interested in your next step will be contacting them. As a free member you can usually send someone a pre-written message chosen from a list, normally called a flirt or smile. To have more chance of getting to know someone it’s best to send a nice personal e-mail. Once you have upgraded your membership you can start sending e-mails. Most one month memberships cost less than a night out. The advantage of sending an e-mail is you can mention parts of the member's profile in the message. This is a great way to show them that you are paying attention.

Once you have gotten to know someone online and you want the next step to be your first offline date. If you meet someone that you fall in love with you will remember that you would never had of met them if you hadn’t joined a Christian online dating service.

Christian Dating

If you are a Christian single, and want to find a good Christian partner it can be a task. To make your life easier you could consider a Christian online dating service. Christian singles are able to find true love online every day.

What would be easier than getting yourself a cup of your favorite beverage, and logging in to a Christian dating service looking at the profiles of other Christian singles? Finding other singles in your area while offline can a bit of a search. An online dating service is the perfect place to start interacting with other Christian singles if you have moved to a new area and don’t know anyone.

They have chat rooms where it's easy to make tons of new friends. Bible study partners are often looked for here, and there’s plenty to learn from the more experienced Christians. Young Christians look to these chat rooms to learn, and discover more about their faith. Again, this is something that can be difficult to do with an online Christian dating service.

The other advantage you have over meeting Christians without the internet is they are all there looking for friendship or romance. It cuts out all the guessing if someone is actually single. This allows you to use all your effort concentrated on making new friends or finding love interests. Most popular Christian dating services can have up to half a million singles.

You can find many reviews online for Christian dating services. Once you have read the reviews you'll be in a position to choose where you would like to create a profile. After that you will be allowed to start your free trial, and get to know the service you have chosen. Free trials are a great way to test the service to see what singles they have in your area.

Once you see a few Christian singles you’re interested in your next step will be contacting them. As a free member you can usually send someone a pre-written message chosen from a list, normally called a flirt or smile. To have more chance of getting to know someone it’s best to send a nice personal e-mail. Once you have upgraded your membership you can start sending e-mails. Most one month memberships cost less than a night out. The advantage of sending an e-mail is you can mention parts of the member's profile in the message. This is a great way to show them that you are paying attention.

Once you have gotten to know someone online and you want the next step to be your first offline date. If you meet someone that you fall in love with you will remember that you would never had of met them if you hadn’t joined a Christian online dating service.

Men are Pigs

Catchy title?

I read something the other day, this is not an exact quote, but this is what it meant:

"Why do men divorce women? Because men are pigs!
Why do women divorce men? Because men are pigs!"

At first I thought, "how silly." But as I explored further, I think this is mainly true in American culture.
A man will divorce his wife and move on to another life, and society will say, "That creep!"
Women will divorce her husband and move on and society will say, "Right on!" "We just want you to be happy." "We are glad you finally left that creep."

Of course, this is generalization. But my own experience and observations confirm to me that this is largely true.

Do you agree with this? If so, why is it? Please note: I'm not refering to what should be a Biblical/Christian attitude toward divorce, but what is the attitude of society in general.

I experienced this in my own divorce 2 1/2 years ago. My wife left and suddenly all of our friends, much of family and the community left with her. All of her family - that I loved much - disappeared. She moved out and suddenly I felt like a pariah in my own neighborhood. “What did he do to cause her to leave?” I could almost hear them whispering. Friendly neighbors turned distant. I knew of many that said to her something like, "We just want you to be happy. Do what you have to do."

I knew that if she had died her family would have visited me daily. They would have brought me food. Called me. Comforted me. Her/our friends as well would have done the same. My neighbors would have been at the door to help. But because she divorced rather than died, suddenly those family and friends dropped off the face of the earth.

What do you think?

Christian singles can get support here.

Christian Love

Christian singles involved in online
Christian dating services are in desperate need of a reminder to pay attention
to what is love, and what is not. The most common misconception members have is
that love is feelings and an excitement caused by another single Christian's
presence. it is most likely to be infatuation, lust, and self-indulgence. The
experience that many Christian singles refer to as love is exactly the opposite.

There is excitement from a new Christian
dating relationship, or just in meeting other single Christians of the
opposite sex. This thrill is not love, but the human drive to be connected with
another.

Christian singles need to realize that love is not always fun. The real test
of Christian love comes when sacrafices are
shared and used to deepen the relationship. If a couple has not have any
challenges in their relationship, they have not arrived at the cornerstone to
love. It is in the hardships that love begins to mold the two into a real
Christian relationship.

Love is a commitment built upon trust, proven over time to build
compatibility and mutually serving interest and growth. It seeks the best
possible conditions for the other person’s benefit, sometimes at one’s own
expense. It is not selfish, crying for attention, and complaining when things do
not go their way.(Corinthians chapter 13)

Meet Christian Singles at the Single
Christian Network

More and More SingleC Success!

I married a man who also was a member of Singlec.com. You just never know who you will end up with.
Actually, he sent me an email first. He was living in Germany (army) at the time and I thought "well, nothing is going to happen with this guy but I'll just write him back to be polite". Well, that led to talking on the phone to a visit from him from Germany to my visiting him in Germany. He retired from the army and found a great job in the U.S. So we went to the courthouse there. I also signed the papers yesterday to sell my house. Tell your members that you just don't know how God will work in your life. Don't close your doors to anyone just because of circumstances because God can change them real quick. I'm so glad that I joined your site. I knew, that I knew, that I knew, when I joined your site, that I would meet a man who I could marry. Just knowing that I was on your christian site made it much easier for me ito date. Much easier. Thanks again for being a great site and helping me along when I needed you.

M.

I cancelling my membership for the best of reasons. I met my current fiancee/future wife here. We\'ve had a romance that spans three continents and are getting married in July. We both thank God for bringing us together and thank this website for making it possible.

God bless you and I pray that you bring other couples together into truly wonderful relationships where the Lord is the center of everything.

K.S.



Find your soulmate today at SingleC.com!

Online Christian Dating

Christian Internet dating allows people with a belief in God and the Bible to find others with same or similar beliefs and principles. When considering this option, a person might get lost in a reverie, thinking back to the days of courtship when the guy would let his girl wear his class sweater, when he would carry her books, and when they included their parents in on their relationship. This old-fashioned concept has been reintroduced with a modern twist. The same values are there- just hyped up with a touch of technology. Christian net dating is something that many Christians have sought as an alternative to going out and meeting people. Sometimes people find it hard to meet others who share their same values, interests, and beliefs. The places that they could possibly meet people don't assure the same core thoughts about God. Unless the people meet at church or at a Christian place, the chances of meeting other Christians might be slim.

There are many websites that cater to Christians with the desire to meet others. These sites want people to know that there are places to meet those who love Jesus, people who are dedicated and desire to follow Him with a whole heart. Genesis 2:18 states, "And the LORD God said, It is not good that the man should be alone; I will make him an help meet for him." God is in the business of matching His people up-one man to one woman. He uses all different sets of circumstances to have peoples' paths cross and get to know their future spouse. God can use Christian Internet dating, just like He can work through friends to introduce people. However a person chooses to view this service, Christian Singles Dating can be a great thing for the right people.

There are mature sites that cater to older audiences. For example, there might be Christian net dating sites that help seniors to meet one another. They might have been married before and then lost their spouse. They still have a desire for companionship and have turned to Christian Internet dating to help them find that potential person. These dating sites try to make the process of finding someone simple and laid back. The individual does not have to worry about looking good or being physically appealing to others in a profile. People will see the individual for who they are and that is the best part, being all that God created them to be, and to find that person that will accept this.

Anyone with morals and principles founded on the Bible and God's love can utilize these organizations and websites to meet others. It is important for someone to pray that the Lord will direct them to the right Christian net dating sites and that they will be wise when meeting new people. A person should always look to glorify God in relationships, especially those they can connect with through Online Christian Dating.

Tips to Create a Great Profile

So, how do you avoid your profile being dull, boring and lifeless? How does
the potential love of your life find you?

Here's seven simple tips to help:-


Get a good photo to post on your profile

Choose your username with care. If you want your username to say something
about you great, if not, just go for something simple.

Always be positive, no moans or groans about past relationships.

Write factual information - not subjective. So write about your job, places you've
lived or travelled to, information about family and pets.

Don't write about what characteristics you don't want in a partner, but write about
the attributes that you would like.

Write like you talk - talk about who you are.

Revise your profile regularly and check for spelling mistakes.


Remember to read the information for each of the profile boxes you complete - read a few
profiles on the site to get an idea of what each box is for.

Write in your own distinct voice - don't copy anyone elses style - and let them see the real
"you".

A Few Online Dating Tips!

You want to make sure that your profile is completed, fully. You want your profile to proprerly display 'You'. You almost always want a photo, many members won't even consider your profile wthout a photo.

Almost every singles sites tell you to never include your email address or other contact information in your profile. This is for YOUR protection. If you post any personal contact information on your profile then EVERYONE who views your profile has that information. You are open to spam mail, scammers, or ever worse, fraud. It is definetaly important to keep your email address, phone numbers, and any other personal information confidential until you are ready.

Online dating companies, such as
SingleC.com, have a free trial. A free trial is probably the most helpful. The thrid tip we have for you is to make sure that you want to buy a membership. You never want to by something that won't work or doesn't seem worth the money. With a free trial you can find out what to expect and even get started with meeting other singles.

Single Christian Network

Sucess at SingleC.com

So many members over the years have found lasting love online. Don't think it's possible to find true love online? Think Again!!!

Check out the success stories and try Online Christian Dating for yourself:

"I have met the man I am going to marry.. please take off my profile and send me a message so I know this has been done!! Thankyou!!!" - N.S.

"With praise to God, I have met a woman and we are ready to be involved in a serious relationship. I would like to delete my ad from your site." - M.M.

Find your true love at Single Christian Network

Christian Dating on SingleC.com

The Internet is home to some fantastic online dating sites. They cover a wide range of ethnic and interest ranges but one of the strongest areas happens to be Christian Dating sites. There are a number of dating sites in the market, but they are also quite varied in what they offer to single Christians looking for love. The question is, which one is right for you?

Faith is important to many people but it’s hard to tell at a bar on a Saturday night those who share your beliefs from those who don’t. Sure, you can meet people in church, but one small congregation may not provide enough good connections to find your soulmate. I know mine certainly didn’t. If you’re seeking a solid Christian relationship, you might need to reach out to one of the many Christian dating sites out there.

A top rated Christian dating site is SingleC.com. This site remains one of the most popular destinations for Christian singles because it has built a truly wonderful community based on faith. Above all else, I take my hat off to SingleC for the many features they have. You can write and read issues in the forums, create and join groups or even chat in online chat rooms. It is one of the most vast and impressive sites on the market, and you can even date! The question is, will you be one of the many who have decided to find a Christian Relationship on SingleC?

Why Do You Need a Christian Dating Service?

So do wonder to yourself, "Why do I need a Christian dating service?"

There are a few good answers for that question. First, with a non-Christian dating site you will spend almost too much time narrowing down your fellow Christians. With other sites you also run into too much adult content and just plain junk.

With a good Christian Dating Service you will be able to avoid all the nosense and just start talking to members just like you. No more writing back members and telling them that you just want Christians and wasting your valuable time. You can then spend more time on looking for your soulmate.

Another big advantage to using Christian Dating is that it's easier to navigate. Most Christian sites have a more simple and comfortable menu. Plus with most Christian sites you get some of the most polite support team. Having  the nice support is better then you think, you can feel very free to ask them any question you have.

You can find a great Christian dating website here, at SingleC.com

Christian Singles Dating - Are You Available?

Have you ever felt that all those good men were taken? Believe it or not, the dating world is very much active than ever before, but when it comes to finding nice partners, its really a whole different scene. If you are you actively looking for a partner and that too Single Christians, then you need to come to SingleC.com to get some Christian Love.

It's a site dedicated to Christian Dating and will provide you a great opportunity to meet both men and women online who are Christians.
Come find your true love today!

New Changes to SingleC

We have some recent changes done to SingleC.com to make your online experience better.
With such features as online instant messaging, videos, and a photo search. These were the top suggests from our members.
The members spoke, and we answered!

Instant message members from all over the world! Have a video you want to show off? It's almost too easy to load a video. Also, if you ever need any help with any of those features our support team is standing by to help you.

Come by the Single Christian Network for all your Christian Dating needs.
Create a profile today and receive Your 5 Day FREE Trial!

Why is it Important to have a Photo on Your Ad?

Any online dating site will tell you that uploading your photo
can increase your chances greatly.

So why is it important to post a photo on your online dating ad?

Here are top 4 reasons:

People are more likely to answer your messages

You get more responses to your ad

You can influence people's opinion about you

You appear more credible

Now let's consider those four points in more detail.

1. People are more likely to answer your messages

Good-looking people (who obviously have photos in their personal
profiles) receive lots of mail. If you are writing to someone
attractive and don't have a photo in your profile, your message
is likely to be ignored.

2. You get more responses to your ad

Most members only view ads of members who have photos in their
profiles. If your profile does not have one, you are not even in
the search results. Some online dating sites also send newsletters to members with
ads of new members who joined recently. If your ad does not have
a photo, you may not make it.

3. You can influence people's opinion about you

This is the biggest advantage of all. When people view personal
ads online, photos are the most interesting part, both for men
and women. Men mostly look for physical beauty, women for
personality shining through.

4. You appear more credible

When you do not have a photo in your personal ad on the dating
site, it looks like you are either hiding something or you are
too lazy to have one taken. Either way, it's not good for your
success on the dating site. If you are concerned about privacy,
you can take a photo in sunglasses or from a distance, this will
be better than having no photo at all.

Having the right photo in your online dating campaign is crucial.
It can make a difference between choosing from dozens of people
competing for your attention and not having a date for the
Saturday night. Choose a dozen or so photos where YOU like yourself the most, and
then show them to your friends of the OPPOSITE gender. Usually
there will be one or two favorites: use them in your Internet
personals ads.

People try to figure out your personality by looking at your
photos. If you appear happy, easygoing, open and warm, they will
be naturally drawn to you. If you appear stiff, reserved, timid
and insecure, they will feel repulsed. Look at your photos from
this point of view, and if your photos don't flatter you, get new
pictures.

You can use a webcam or take a photo of yourself with your mobile
phone camera - this will only take you a couple of minutes. This
is what most people do. But if you want BETTER than average results, then consider going an extra mile - this always pays off. Spend a day to get the right photos, and you may set up your love affair for life! Don't you think it's worth it?

Get a friend with a digital camera to take a few hundreds of
photos of you in different settings. Make sure you are dressed
neat and stylish, and use open body language (no crossed legs or
arms, no barriers between you and the viewer, relaxed,
comfortable pose, and a lovely smile).

Update your photo in your Internet personals ad and check the
difference - it can be staggering!

Online Christian Dating

If you are a Christian single, and want to find a good Christian partner it can be a task. To make your life easier you could consider a Christian Dating Service. Christian singles are able to find true love online every day.

What would be easier than getting yourself a cup of your favorite beverage, and logging in to a Christian dating service looking at the profiles of other Christian singles? Finding other singles in your area while offline can a bit of a search. An online dating service is the perfect place to start interacting with other Christian singles if you have moved to a new area and don’t know anyone.

They have chat rooms where it's easy to make tons of new friends. Bible study partners are often looked for here, and there’s plenty to learn from the more experienced Christians. Young Christians look to these chat rooms to learn, and discover more about their faith. Again, this is something that can be difficult to do with an online Christian dating service.

The other advantage you have over meeting Christian Singles without the internet is they are all there looking for friendship or romance. It cuts out all the guessing if someone is actually single. This allows you to use all your effort concentrated on making new friends or finding love interests. Most popular Christian dating services can have up to half a million singles.

You can find many reviews online for Christian dating services. Once you have read the reviews you'll be in a position to choose where you would like to create a profile. After that you will be allowed to start your free trial, and get to know the service you have chosen. Free trials are a great way to test the service to see what singles they have in your area.

Once you see a few Christian singles you’re interested in your next step will be contacting them. As a free member you can usually send someone a pre-written message chosen from a list, normally called a flirt or smile. To have more chance of getting to know someone it’s best to send a nice personal e-mail. Once you have upgraded your membership you can start sending e-mails. Most one month memberships cost less than a night out. The advantage of sending an e-mail is you can mention parts of the member's profile in the message. This is a great way to show them that you are paying attention.

Once you have gotten to know someone online and you want the next step to be your first offline date. If you meet someone that you fall in love with you will remember that you would never had of met them if you hadn’t joined a Christian online dating service.

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Christian Love

Christian singles involved in online Christian dating services are in desperate need of a reminder to pay attention to what is love, and what is not. The most common misconception members have is that love is feelings and an excitement caused by another single Christian's presence. it is most likely to be infatuation, lust, and self-indulgence. The experience that many Christian singles refer to as love is exactly the opposite.

There is excitement from a new Christian dating relationship, or just in meeting other single Christians of the opposite sex. This thrill is not love, but the human drive to be connected with another.

Christian singles need to realize that love is not always fun. The real test of Christian love comes when sacrafices are shared and used to deepen the relationship. If a couple has not have any challenges in their relationship, they have not arrived at the cornerstone to love. It is in the hardships that love begins to mold the two into a real Christian relationship.

Love is a commitment built upon trust, proven over time to build compatibility and mutually serving interest and growth. It seeks the best possible conditions for the other person’s benefit, sometimes at one’s own expense. It is not selfish, crying for attention, and complaining when things do not go their way.(Corinthians chapter 13)

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Online Christian Dating

If you are a Christian single, and want to find a good Christian partner it can be a task. To make your life easier you could consider a Christian online dating service. Christian singles are able to find true love online every day.

What would be easier than getting yourself a cup of your favorite beverage, and logging in to a Christian dating service looking at the profiles of other Christian singles? Finding other singles in your area while offline can a bit of a search. An online dating service is the perfect place to start interacting with other Christian singles if you have moved to a new area and don’t know anyone.

They have chat rooms where it's easy to make tons of new friends. Bible study partners are often looked for here, and there’s plenty to learn from the more experienced Christians. Young Christians look to these chat rooms to learn, and discover more about their faith. Again, this is something that can be difficult to do with an online Christian dating service.

The other advantage you have over meeting Christians without the internet is they are all there looking for friendship or romance. It cuts out all the guessing if someone is actually single. This allows you to use all your effort concentrated on making new friends or finding love interests. Most popular Christian dating services can have up to half a million singles.

You can find many reviews online for Christian dating services. Once you have read the reviews you'll be in a position to choose where you would like to create a profile. After that you will be allowed to start your free trial, and get to know the service you have chosen. Free trials are a great way to test the service to see what singles they have in your area.

Once you see a few Christian singles you’re interested in your next step will be contacting them. As a free member you can usually send someone a pre-written message chosen from a list, normally called a flirt or smile. To have more chance of getting to know someone it’s best to send a nice personal e-mail. Once you have upgraded your membership you can start sending e-mails. Most one month memberships cost less than a night out. The advantage of sending an e-mail is you can mention parts of the member's profile in the message. This is a great way to show them that you are paying attention.

Once you have gotten to know someone online and you want the next step to be your first offline date. If you meet someone that you fall in love with you will remember that you would never had of met them if you hadn’t joined a Christian online dating service.

Enjoy this Christian Dating Service: SingleC.com

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Make Your Online Dating Personal Ad Great!

Make Your Online Dating Personal Ad Great!

New to Online Dating? Trying to find the christian soulmate of your dreams through the web? You need to have a Good Personal Ad or Dating Profile.

Some people don't believe me when I tell them that most problems with not enough responses to your Ad can be fixed just by writing a better Ad. Check out the profiles on your average online dating site. Start reading out profiles, you won't believe that so many people write such terrible ads! Maybe it is this overvalued notion of writing whatever comes to your mind, letting it flow, being you - which leads you to write gibberish in your ads. Say goodbye to any success in online dating with that. Think what would happen if NASA Engineers became spontaneous?

So stop your Dating shuttle from crashing and read these examples of common Mistakes in Dating Profiles. Have a laugh, but be careful, your own profile may have bugs too! (All examples are real)

..."I am an Honest, Spontaneous, Creative, Intelligent (..other personal adjectives) ...person."

Very few people think they are not, so this is very subjective (same as the fact that 80% people believe that they have an IQ above average!). Even if true, it is redundant information at best. Avoid using personal adjectives in your Ad or Profile. Define yourself concretely-better to say I am a Guitar player in a Band or I write Novels or I am a practising Doctor than I am Creative or Intelligent.

.."I am a funny, witty person...."

Funny and witty people never write that directly. Instead of saying this, add a touch of humor to your profile.

"I was just bored, so wrote my profile here..."

A negative attitude. Instead, say, "I am new to this..."

..."I am not interested in guys who are bitter and boring..."

No one is. Use the Ad mostly to tell what you like, not what you don't like. Agreeability is a must have in first introductions.

..."I am looking for a REAL man/woman, with all the letters of REAL..."

Everyone is real. Basically, don't worry, sounds like you have had some bad experiences in relationships, but that's over now. Come with a positive attitude to Online Dating, and just meet the people. Then when you email them and meet them in person, you can decide if they are real or not.

..."I like taking walks by the ocean, or watching TV, or going camping with my friends..."

Unimportant details. Most people like these things, and these are hardly important details in finding a partner (it is unlikely you won't like going out with someone just because they don't like walking the beach or watching TV with you).SingleC.com

Single Christian Success

Hi SingleC,
I have found the Christian woman of my dreams on your site. I will not
be using it anymore.
God Bless and Happy New Year
Have a Blessed Day. December 29th, 2006

The man that I met through this site is moving to my area so we can be closer together . . . and eventually, we will marry. Thank you for a wonderful chat room . . . it will always hold a special place in my memories. I have forged friendships with many, many Christians that I would never have known without SCN. Thanks again. January 7th, 2007

Hi Single Christian Network. I have found someone special. I want to say thank you so much for your website. Please pray for my soulmate and I. Again thank you!!! January 20th, 2007

SingleC Success!

I have found the man that I have been praying for. In fact, he found me here on SCN Single Christian Network: Where Christian Singles MeetChristian Personals
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Success!
I will never forget October 3rd, the day I wrote my first email to her, for that was the day that began the journey of my new life. Ithank God for leading me to your site, where I met my true love. I know thatGod has a match for everyone, and with faith, prayer, and patience everyonecan find their match. These last 2 years for me have been a real joy andblessing. Thank you.g


Today's Success Story
Hello SCN...thanks to you and Jesus, I found HER... Thank you so much for your help! Single Christian Network: Where Christian Singles MeetChristian Chat



Another Happy Couple I married a member of SingleC this summer and we are expecting our little bundle of joy in May (2005)! God has truly blessed us and we pray that every member of SingleC can find as much happpiness as my husband and I have. Single Christian Network: Where Christian Singles Meet


Friday's Success Story Thanks for your site and incredible service......I singed up only 8 weeks ago and after getting acquainted to the site did a search of the profiles and ran accross 'the most amazing woman I've met'.....I didn't think someone existed that shared my values, passions and even silly sense of humor...BUT, she is alive and well and in my heart. Although I was skeptical about the distance separating us in the beginning, prayer for God's will and our daily talks and emails have shownme that MY perfect one can be located anywhere and now that we've finally met, distance won't keep us apart. Single Christian Network: Where Christian Singles Meet Christian Singles


Wednesday, June 21, 2006
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I just wanted to let ya'll know that I met my husband through your site on December 12, 2005. He wrote to me first and I repsonded soon thereafter. From that point on we had an instant connection. We met face to face in March 2004. We got engaged in June... We got married October 22. Without your site we would never have met. We are so thankful for you and the hard work that goes into making this a successful site. Single Christian Network



Monday, June 19, 2006
Another Happy Couple
Greetings SC Network!



I'm very grateful to say that the Lord used your site to bring my beloved and I together. After waiting upon the Lord for nearly a decade to be married to a godly spouse (and, I might add, being a bit skeptical about the internet being the tool used to aid in that occassion), I'm very happy to say that I married a wonderful man this September after meeting him on this site. Many thanks for your services and I pray that the Lord be glorified through our union.Don't be single any longer. Find your True love now at SingleC.com. Search for Christian Singles now.

Safety First!

The safety of members at SingleC.com is our Number 1 priority. In order to provide the best service possible, we personally review ever profile that is submitted. If any problem does arise, it is taken care of usually within a matter of minutes. We would like to provide our members with additional Safety Tips so that you may enjoy SingleC.com even more. :)

Warning Signs: The following are warning signs. They are red flags that you should watch out for. Money. Watch out for anyone that asks you for money. If they ask you for money before they really know anything else about you, consider terminating all communication at once. Let us know if any of our members asks you for money. Find out more about internet scams here.Personal Info. Be wary of anyone who asks you for personal or confidential information. No one needs to know your home address, your work address or the names of your children right off. There will be a time when some personal information should be shared, but be careful is someone wants to know too much information too soon. Honesty. Be careful of anyone who tries to disguise his or her email address in the text of their personal ad or mail messages. Why? Because if they were honest they would not need to. If they know that we do not allow email addresses in the ads, then they would have no need to disguise it. If they do know, then they are trying to cheat and are not honest. Sure, it is a small thing, but someone who is dishonest in the small things, will be dishonest in the bigger things. Something small like this should be a RED FLAG that that person is not completely honest. Reporting. If anyone is using our service to send you inappropriate mail or bothering you in any way, the first thing to do is block them. You can block them by clicking on the BLOCK button from within a mail message. Please REPORT any innapropriate activity here. Dating and Meeting Safety:Do not give out your phone number until you are very comfortable in doing so. Listen to your inner voice.Do not give out your email address until you are comfortable doing so. If your email address has your name in it, you might want to consider getting one of the anonymous free email accounts such as hotmail.com or yahoo.com . Agree to meet in a public place for the first time.When meeting for the first time, tell someone else of your plans. Agree to check in with that person at a stated time. Do NOT arrange a full fledged date for the first meeting. Meet for a cup of coffee or a coke in a public area.. Agree that the meeting should last for about 30 minutes or less. At the end of that time, if you are feeling comfortable you can extend the meeting. Otherwise, say your goodbyes as you have previously agreed to. This way you if you discover that you are uncomfortable and it is not going as expected you do not have to sit through an entire date. For the first meeting, drive separate cars. Do NOT have him/her pick you up at your home or vice versa. Meet at the designated location. If all goes well, agree to do it again for slightly longer period.Only when you are comfortable do you agree to a full date. Don't be single any longer. Find your True love now at SingleC.com.


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New Video Feature!

New and exciting things are happening at SingleC. We now have a brand new feature which allows members to add a video to their profile. We're sure that the members will love the new feature, it is sure to enhance the Christian Singles Dating experience.

Since members can now add a video to their profile it makes it easier for members to see and hear their possible match in action. This way anyone can find a Christian Soulmate faster. It also makes it much easier for long distance relationships to form.

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Rating Your Dating Site

Things to look for with an Online Dating Site are 3 main things:

Are there members within my range (location and age)?

You must make sure that the members are somewhere around your age, otherwise you may just be wasting your time.

Is the site easy to use?

If you cannot easily navigate the site then you may not know all the features available.

How long has he site been around?

You can tell the quality of a site by the age of the Dating Site. Only the good ones can withstand the test of time.

There are also many places on the web to find reviews on Online Dating Sites.
Testimonies can give you a good idea on what to expect. Read the testimonies to see the average amount of time that it takes to meet someone, this will help you decide on how long of a membership to purchase if you decide to become a full member.

Mick
Single Christian Network