Monday, January 29, 2007

Make Your Online Dating Personal Ad Great!

Make Your Online Dating Personal Ad Great!

New to Online Dating? Trying to find the christian soulmate of your dreams through the web? You need to have a Good Personal Ad or Dating Profile.

Some people don't believe me when I tell them that most problems with not enough responses to your Ad can be fixed just by writing a better Ad. Check out the profiles on your average online dating site. Start reading out profiles, you won't believe that so many people write such terrible ads! Maybe it is this overvalued notion of writing whatever comes to your mind, letting it flow, being you - which leads you to write gibberish in your ads. Say goodbye to any success in online dating with that. Think what would happen if NASA Engineers became spontaneous?

So stop your Dating shuttle from crashing and read these examples of common Mistakes in Dating Profiles. Have a laugh, but be careful, your own profile may have bugs too! (All examples are real)

..."I am an Honest, Spontaneous, Creative, Intelligent (..other personal adjectives) ...person."

Very few people think they are not, so this is very subjective (same as the fact that 80% people believe that they have an IQ above average!). Even if true, it is redundant information at best. Avoid using personal adjectives in your Ad or Profile. Define yourself concretely-better to say I am a Guitar player in a Band or I write Novels or I am a practising Doctor than I am Creative or Intelligent.

.."I am a funny, witty person...."

Funny and witty people never write that directly. Instead of saying this, add a touch of humor to your profile.

"I was just bored, so wrote my profile here..."

A negative attitude. Instead, say, "I am new to this..."

..."I am not interested in guys who are bitter and boring..."

No one is. Use the Ad mostly to tell what you like, not what you don't like. Agreeability is a must have in first introductions.

..."I am looking for a REAL man/woman, with all the letters of REAL..."

Everyone is real. Basically, don't worry, sounds like you have had some bad experiences in relationships, but that's over now. Come with a positive attitude to Online Dating, and just meet the people. Then when you email them and meet them in person, you can decide if they are real or not.

..."I like taking walks by the ocean, or watching TV, or going camping with my friends..."

Unimportant details. Most people like these things, and these are hardly important details in finding a partner (it is unlikely you won't like going out with someone just because they don't like walking the beach or watching TV with you)

Friday, January 26, 2007

Single Christian Success

Hi SingleC,
I have found the Christian woman of my dreams on your site. I will not
be using it anymore.
God Bless and Happy New Year
Have a Blessed Day. December 29th, 2006

The man that I met through this site is moving to my area so we can be closer together . . . and eventually, we will marry. Thank you for a wonderful chat room . . . it will always hold a special place in my memories. I have forged friendships with many, many Christians that I would never have known without SCN. Thanks again. January 7th, 2007

Hi Single Christian Network. I have found someone special. I want to say thank you so much for your website. Please pray for my soulmate and I. Again thank you!!! January 20th, 2007

Monday, January 22, 2007

SingleC Success!

I have found the man that I have been praying for. In fact, he found me here on SCN Single Christian Network: Where Christian Singles MeetChristian Personals
See more Christian Dating here: Christian Dating

I will never forget October 3rd, the day I wrote my first email to her, for that was the day that began the journey of my new life. Ithank God for leading me to your site, where I met my true love. I know thatGod has a match for everyone, and with faith, prayer, and patience everyonecan find their match. These last 2 years for me have been a real joy andblessing. Thank you.g

Today's Success Story
Hello SCN...thanks to you and Jesus, I found HER... Thank you so much for your help! Single Christian Network: Where Christian Singles MeetChristian Chat

Another Happy Couple I married a member of SingleC this summer and we are expecting our little bundle of joy in May (2005)! God has truly blessed us and we pray that every member of SingleC can find as much happpiness as my husband and I have. Single Christian Network: Where Christian Singles Meet

Friday's Success Story Thanks for your site and incredible service......I singed up only 8 weeks ago and after getting acquainted to the site did a search of the profiles and ran accross 'the most amazing woman I've met'.....I didn't think someone existed that shared my values, passions and even silly sense of humor...BUT, she is alive and well and in my heart. Although I was skeptical about the distance separating us in the beginning, prayer for God's will and our daily talks and emails have shownme that MY perfect one can be located anywhere and now that we've finally met, distance won't keep us apart. Single Christian Network: Where Christian Singles Meet Christian Singles

Wednesday, June 21, 2006
SingleC Wedding Celebration
Single Christian Network -

I just wanted to let ya'll know that I met my husband through your site on December 12, 2005. He wrote to me first and I repsonded soon thereafter. From that point on we had an instant connection. We met face to face in March 2004. We got engaged in June... We got married October 22. Without your site we would never have met. We are so thankful for you and the hard work that goes into making this a successful site. Single Christian Network

Monday, June 19, 2006
Another Happy Couple
Greetings SC Network!

I'm very grateful to say that the Lord used your site to bring my beloved and I together. After waiting upon the Lord for nearly a decade to be married to a godly spouse (and, I might add, being a bit skeptical about the internet being the tool used to aid in that occassion), I'm very happy to say that I married a wonderful man this September after meeting him on this site. Many thanks for your services and I pray that the Lord be glorified through our union.Don't be single any longer. Find your True love now at Search for Christian Singles now.

Monday, January 15, 2007

Safety First!

The safety of members at is our Number 1 priority. In order to provide the best service possible, we personally review ever profile that is submitted. If any problem does arise, it is taken care of usually within a matter of minutes. We would like to provide our members with additional Safety Tips so that you may enjoy even more. :)

Warning Signs: The following are warning signs. They are red flags that you should watch out for. Money. Watch out for anyone that asks you for money. If they ask you for money before they really know anything else about you, consider terminating all communication at once. Let us know if any of our members asks you for money. Find out more about internet scams here.Personal Info. Be wary of anyone who asks you for personal or confidential information. No one needs to know your home address, your work address or the names of your children right off. There will be a time when some personal information should be shared, but be careful is someone wants to know too much information too soon. Honesty. Be careful of anyone who tries to disguise his or her email address in the text of their personal ad or mail messages. Why? Because if they were honest they would not need to. If they know that we do not allow email addresses in the ads, then they would have no need to disguise it. If they do know, then they are trying to cheat and are not honest. Sure, it is a small thing, but someone who is dishonest in the small things, will be dishonest in the bigger things. Something small like this should be a RED FLAG that that person is not completely honest. Reporting. If anyone is using our service to send you inappropriate mail or bothering you in any way, the first thing to do is block them. You can block them by clicking on the BLOCK button from within a mail message. Please REPORT any innapropriate activity here. Dating and Meeting Safety:Do not give out your phone number until you are very comfortable in doing so. Listen to your inner voice.Do not give out your email address until you are comfortable doing so. If your email address has your name in it, you might want to consider getting one of the anonymous free email accounts such as or . Agree to meet in a public place for the first time.When meeting for the first time, tell someone else of your plans. Agree to check in with that person at a stated time. Do NOT arrange a full fledged date for the first meeting. Meet for a cup of coffee or a coke in a public area.. Agree that the meeting should last for about 30 minutes or less. At the end of that time, if you are feeling comfortable you can extend the meeting. Otherwise, say your goodbyes as you have previously agreed to. This way you if you discover that you are uncomfortable and it is not going as expected you do not have to sit through an entire date. For the first meeting, drive separate cars. Do NOT have him/her pick you up at your home or vice versa. Meet at the designated location. If all goes well, agree to do it again for slightly longer period.Only when you are comfortable do you agree to a full date. Don't be single any longer. Find your True love now at

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Tuesday, January 09, 2007

New Video Feature!

New and exciting things are happening at SingleC. We now have a brand new feature which allows members to add a video to their profile. We're sure that the members will love the new feature, it is sure to enhance the Christian Singles Dating experience.

Since members can now add a video to their profile it makes it easier for members to see and hear their possible match in action. This way anyone can find a Christian Soulmate faster. It also makes it much easier for long distance relationships to form.

Tell your friends about the Single Christian Network and out new Video Feature.
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Wednesday, January 03, 2007

Rating Your Dating Site

Things to look for with an Online Dating Site are 3 main things:

  • Are there members within my range (location and age)?

  • You must make sure that the members are somewhere around your age, otherwise you may just be wasting your time.

  • Is the site easy to use?

  • If you cannot easily navigate the site then you may not know all the features available.

  • How long has he site been around?

  • You can tell the quality of a site by the age of the Dating Site. Only the good ones can withstand the test of time.

    There are also many places on the web to find reviews on Online Dating Sites.
    Testimonies can give you a good idea on what to expect. Read the testimonies to see the average amount of time that it takes to meet someone, this will help you decide on how long of a membership to purchase if you decide to become a full member.

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