Sunday, June 24, 2007

Online Dating Tips for Christians

Christian Online dating is one of the easiest ways to meet other single Christians. Simply join an online dating site, create an account, and you’re good to go. But there are just a few tips that will make this naturally fun ride a little less bumpy. Here we go!

Create a separate email, and choose an address that does not reveal your real name. This gives you privacy, and also helps you keep your business and personal correspondence separate. Considering that you may get hundreds of emails a day, you’ll appreciate that kind of organization. Don’t give your private information in your profile or early on in your correspondence. This includes your last name, personal email, home address, work address, or position and company. And if you want to talk to each other on the phone, sign up for a service that will block your number from Caller ID, or talk on the cell phone instead.

As Christian you should be honest in your ads and email correspondence.

Don’t answer emails on the same day. You don’t want to look too desperate. Wait a bit, whet their appetite, and let them know you have a life outside of the Internet. A two to three day wait is just right: you’re not being rude, but you don’t look too needy, either. Besides, when they’re waiting, they’re interest grows: they’ll be imagining what you said, wondering about your reaction.

If you do decide to meet up with someone you met through Internet dating, meet in a public place and inform a friend where you’re going. Schedule it in for lunch or coffee, rather than dinner. At least he won’t have to bring you home and find out where you live, and if the date bombs it’s easier to think of the excuse that you have a meeting. For additional safety, you can even ask some friends to have lunch in the same restaurant (they’ll probably be curious about him anyway!” Watch out for warning signs that the person you’re taking to is, to put it mildly, “a little nuts.” This includes flashes of temper, being pressuring or controlling, rude and demeaning remarks, inconsistent facts about age, interests, employment, etc., refusal to give direct answers. You can also actively try to “test” the person’s consistency by intentionally making a mistake when referring to something he said in the past. For example, if he said that he had a Labrador Retriever when he was growing up in a farm in Texas, casually say in a line, “Oh, I saw the most adorable sheepdog in the pet store, and I thought of you!”

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Christian Dating

If you are a Christian single, and want to find a good Christian partner it can be a task. To make your life easier you could consider a Christian online dating service. Christian singles are able to find true love online every day.

What would be easier than getting yourself a cup of your favorite beverage, and logging in to a Christian dating service looking at the profiles of other Christian singles? Finding other singles in your area while offline can a bit of a search. An online dating service is the perfect place to start interacting with other Christian singles if you have moved to a new area and don’t know anyone.

They have chat rooms where it's easy to make tons of new friends. Bible study partners are often looked for here, and there’s plenty to learn from the more experienced Christians. Young Christians look to these chat rooms to learn, and discover more about their faith. Again, this is something that can be difficult to do with an online Christian dating service.

The other advantage you have over meeting Christians without the internet is they are all there looking for friendship or romance. It cuts out all the guessing if someone is actually single. This allows you to use all your effort concentrated on making new friends or finding love interests. Most popular Christian dating services can have up to half a million singles.

You can find many reviews online for Christian dating services. Once you have read the reviews you'll be in a position to choose where you would like to create a profile. After that you will be allowed to start your free trial, and get to know the service you have chosen. Free trials are a great way to test the service to see what singles they have in your area.

Once you see a few Christian singles you’re interested in your next step will be contacting them. As a free member you can usually send someone a pre-written message chosen from a list, normally called a flirt or smile. To have more chance of getting to know someone it’s best to send a nice personal e-mail. Once you have upgraded your membership you can start sending e-mails. Most one month memberships cost less than a night out. The advantage of sending an e-mail is you can mention parts of the member's profile in the message. This is a great way to show them that you are paying attention.

Once you have gotten to know someone online and you want the next step to be your first offline date. If you meet someone that you fall in love with you will remember that you would never had of met them if you hadn’t joined a Christian online dating service.

Christian Dating

If you are a Christian single, and want to find a good Christian partner it can be a task. To make your life easier you could consider a Christian online dating service. Christian singles are able to find true love online every day.

What would be easier than getting yourself a cup of your favorite beverage, and logging in to a Christian dating service looking at the profiles of other Christian singles? Finding other singles in your area while offline can a bit of a search. An online dating service is the perfect place to start interacting with other Christian singles if you have moved to a new area and don’t know anyone.

They have chat rooms where it's easy to make tons of new friends. Bible study partners are often looked for here, and there’s plenty to learn from the more experienced Christians. Young Christians look to these chat rooms to learn, and discover more about their faith. Again, this is something that can be difficult to do with an online Christian dating service.

The other advantage you have over meeting Christians without the internet is they are all there looking for friendship or romance. It cuts out all the guessing if someone is actually single. This allows you to use all your effort concentrated on making new friends or finding love interests. Most popular Christian dating services can have up to half a million singles.

You can find many reviews online for Christian dating services. Once you have read the reviews you'll be in a position to choose where you would like to create a profile. After that you will be allowed to start your free trial, and get to know the service you have chosen. Free trials are a great way to test the service to see what singles they have in your area.

Once you see a few Christian singles you’re interested in your next step will be contacting them. As a free member you can usually send someone a pre-written message chosen from a list, normally called a flirt or smile. To have more chance of getting to know someone it’s best to send a nice personal e-mail. Once you have upgraded your membership you can start sending e-mails. Most one month memberships cost less than a night out. The advantage of sending an e-mail is you can mention parts of the member's profile in the message. This is a great way to show them that you are paying attention.

Once you have gotten to know someone online and you want the next step to be your first offline date. If you meet someone that you fall in love with you will remember that you would never had of met them if you hadn’t joined a Christian online dating service.

Saturday, May 12, 2007

Men are Pigs

Catchy title?

I read something the other day, this is not an exact quote, but this is what it meant:

"Why do men divorce women? Because men are pigs!
Why do women divorce men? Because men are pigs!"

At first I thought, "how silly." But as I explored further, I think this is mainly true in American culture.
A man will divorce his wife and move on to another life, and society will say, "That creep!"
Women will divorce her husband and move on and society will say, "Right on!" "We just want you to be happy." "We are glad you finally left that creep."

Of course, this is generalization. But my own experience and observations confirm to me that this is largely true.

Do you agree with this? If so, why is it? Please note: I'm not refering to what should be a Biblical/Christian attitude toward divorce, but what is the attitude of society in general.

I experienced this in my own divorce 2 1/2 years ago. My wife left and suddenly all of our friends, much of family and the community left with her. All of her family - that I loved much - disappeared. She moved out and suddenly I felt like a pariah in my own neighborhood. “What did he do to cause her to leave?” I could almost hear them whispering. Friendly neighbors turned distant. I knew of many that said to her something like, "We just want you to be happy. Do what you have to do."

I knew that if she had died her family would have visited me daily. They would have brought me food. Called me. Comforted me. Her/our friends as well would have done the same. My neighbors would have been at the door to help. But because she divorced rather than died, suddenly those family and friends dropped off the face of the earth.

What do you think?

Christian singles can get support here.

Monday, May 07, 2007

Christian Love

Christian singles involved in online
Christian dating services are in desperate need of a reminder to pay attention
to what is love, and what is not. The most common misconception members have is
that love is feelings and an excitement caused by another single Christian's
presence. it is most likely to be infatuation, lust, and self-indulgence. The
experience that many Christian singles refer to as love is exactly the opposite.


There is excitement from a new Christian
dating
relationship, or just in meeting other single Christians of the
opposite sex. This thrill is not love, but the human drive to be connected with
another.


Christian singles need to realize that love is not always fun. The real test
of Christian love comes when sacrafices are
shared and used to deepen the relationship. If a couple has not have any
challenges in their relationship, they have not arrived at the cornerstone to
love. It is in the hardships that love begins to mold the two into a real
Christian relationship.


Love is a commitment built upon trust, proven over time to build
compatibility and mutually serving interest and growth. It seeks the best
possible conditions for the other person’s benefit, sometimes at one’s own
expense. It is not selfish, crying for attention, and complaining when things do
not go their way.(Corinthians chapter 13)


Meet Christian Singles at the Single
Christian Network

Thursday, May 03, 2007

More and More SingleC Success!

I married a man who also was a member of Singlec.com. You just never know who you will end up with.
Actually, he sent me an email first. He was living in Germany (army) at the time and I thought "well, nothing is going to happen with this guy but I'll just write him back to be polite". Well, that led to talking on the phone to a visit from him from Germany to my visiting him in Germany. He retired from the army and found a great job in the U.S. So we went to the courthouse there. I also signed the papers yesterday to sell my house. Tell your members that you just don't know how God will work in your life. Don't close your doors to anyone just because of circumstances because God can change them real quick. I'm so glad that I joined your site. I knew, that I knew, that I knew, when I joined your site, that I would meet a man who I could marry. Just knowing that I was on your christian site made it much easier for me ito date. Much easier. Thanks again for being a great site and helping me along when I needed you.


M.




I cancelling my membership for the best of reasons. I met my current fiancee/future wife here. We\'ve had a romance that spans three continents and are getting married in July. We both thank God for bringing us together and thank this website for making it possible.

God bless you and I pray that you bring other couples together into truly wonderful relationships where the Lord is the center of everything.



K.S.



Find your soulmate today at SingleC.com!

Thursday, April 26, 2007

Online Christian Dating

Christian Internet dating allows people with a belief in God and the Bible to find others with same or similar beliefs and principles. When considering this option, a person might get lost in a reverie, thinking back to the days of courtship when the guy would let his girl wear his class sweater, when he would carry her books, and when they included their parents in on their relationship. This old-fashioned concept has been reintroduced with a modern twist. The same values are there- just hyped up with a touch of technology. Christian net dating is something that many Christians have sought as an alternative to going out and meeting people. Sometimes people find it hard to meet others who share their same values, interests, and beliefs. The places that they could possibly meet people don't assure the same core thoughts about God. Unless the people meet at church or at a Christian place, the chances of meeting other Christians might be slim.

There are many websites that cater to Christians with the desire to meet others. These sites want people to know that there are places to meet those who love Jesus, people who are dedicated and desire to follow Him with a whole heart. Genesis 2:18 states, "And the LORD God said, It is not good that the man should be alone; I will make him an help meet for him." God is in the business of matching His people up-one man to one woman. He uses all different sets of circumstances to have peoples' paths cross and get to know their future spouse. God can use Christian Internet dating, just like He can work through friends to introduce people. However a person chooses to view this service, Christian Singles Dating can be a great thing for the right people.

There are mature sites that cater to older audiences. For example, there might be Christian net dating sites that help seniors to meet one another. They might have been married before and then lost their spouse. They still have a desire for companionship and have turned to Christian Internet dating to help them find that potential person. These dating sites try to make the process of finding someone simple and laid back. The individual does not have to worry about looking good or being physically appealing to others in a profile. People will see the individual for who they are and that is the best part, being all that God created them to be, and to find that person that will accept this.

Anyone with morals and principles founded on the Bible and God's love can utilize these organizations and websites to meet others. It is important for someone to pray that the Lord will direct them to the right Christian net dating sites and that they will be wise when meeting new people. A person should always look to glorify God in relationships, especially those they can connect with through Online Christian Dating.

Sunday, April 22, 2007

Tips to Create a Great Profile

So, how do you avoid your profile being dull, boring and lifeless? How does
the potential love of your life find you?

Here's seven simple tips to help:-


Get a good photo to post on your profile

Choose your username with care. If you want your username to say something
about you great, if not, just go for something simple.

Always be positive, no moans or groans about past relationships.

Write factual information - not subjective. So write about your job, places you've
lived or travelled to, information about family and pets.

Don't write about what characteristics you don't want in a partner, but write about
the attributes that you would like.

Write like you talk - talk about who you are.

Revise your profile regularly and check for spelling mistakes.


Remember to read the information for each of the profile boxes you complete - read a few
profiles on the site to get an idea of what each box is for.

Write in your own distinct voice - don't copy anyone elses style - and let them see the real
"you".

Friday, April 13, 2007

A Few Online Dating Tips!

You want to make sure that your profile is completed, fully. You want your profile to proprerly display 'You'. You almost always want a photo, many members won't even consider your profile wthout a photo.

Almost every singles sites tell you to never include your email address or other contact information in your profile. This is for YOUR protection. If you post any personal contact information on your profile then EVERYONE who views your profile has that information. You are open to spam mail, scammers, or ever worse, fraud. It is definetaly important to keep your email address, phone numbers, and any other personal information confidential until you are ready.

Online dating companies, such as
SingleC.com, have a free trial. A free trial is probably the most helpful. The thrid tip we have for you is to make sure that you want to buy a membership. You never want to by something that won't work or doesn't seem worth the money. With a free trial you can find out what to expect and even get started with meeting other singles.

Single Christian Network

Wednesday, April 11, 2007

Sucess at SingleC.com

So many members over the years have found lasting love online. Don't think it's possible to find true love online? Think Again!!!


Check out the success stories and try Online Christian Dating for yourself:


"I have met the man I am going to marry.. please take off my profile and send me a message so I know this has been done!! Thankyou!!!" - N.S.


"With praise to God, I have met a woman and we are ready to be involved in a serious relationship. I would like to delete my ad from your site." - M.M.


Find your true love at Single Christian Network

Thursday, April 05, 2007

Christian Dating on SingleC.com

The Internet is home to some fantastic online dating sites. They cover a wide range of ethnic and interest ranges but one of the strongest areas happens to be Christian Dating sites. There are a number of dating sites in the market, but they are also quite varied in what they offer to single Christians looking for love. The question is, which one is right for you?

Faith is important to many people but it’s hard to tell at a bar on a Saturday night those who share your beliefs from those who don’t. Sure, you can meet people in church, but one small congregation may not provide enough good connections to find your soulmate. I know mine certainly didn’t. If you’re seeking a solid Christian relationship, you might need to reach out to one of the many Christian dating sites out there.

A top rated Christian dating site is SingleC.com. This site remains one of the most popular destinations for Christian singles because it has built a truly wonderful community based on faith. Above all else, I take my hat off to SingleC for the many features they have. You can write and read issues in the forums, create and join groups or even chat in online chat rooms. It is one of the most vast and impressive sites on the market, and you can even date! The question is, will you be one of the many who have decided to find a Christian Relationship on SingleC?

Wednesday, April 04, 2007

Why Do You Need a Christian Dating Service?

So do wonder to yourself, "Why do I need a Christian dating service?"


There are a few good answers for that question. First, with a non-Christian dating site you will spend almost too much time narrowing down your fellow Christians. With other sites you also run into too much adult content and just plain junk.


With a good Christian Dating Service you will be able to avoid all the nosense and just start talking to members just like you. No more writing back members and telling them that you just want Christians and wasting your valuable time. You can then spend more time on looking for your soulmate.

Another big advantage to using Christian Dating is that it's easier to navigate. Most Christian sites have a more simple and comfortable menu. Plus with most Christian sites you get some of the most polite support team. Having  the nice support is better then you think, you can feel very free to ask them any question you have.

You can find a great Christian dating website here, at SingleC.com

Saturday, March 24, 2007

Christian Singles Dating - Are You Available?

Have you ever felt that all those good men were taken? Believe it or not, the dating world is very much active than ever before, but when it comes to finding nice partners, its really a whole different scene. If you are you actively looking for a partner and that too Single Christians, then you need to come to SingleC.com to get some Christian Love.

It's a site dedicated to Christian Dating and will provide you a great opportunity to meet both men and women online who are Christians.
Come find your true love today!

Monday, March 19, 2007

New Changes to SingleC

We have some recent changes done to SingleC.com to make your online experience better.
With such features as online instant messaging, videos, and a photo search. These were the top suggests from our members.
The members spoke, and we answered!

Instant message members from all over the world! Have a video you want to show off? It's almost too easy to load a video. Also, if you ever need any help with any of those features our support team is standing by to help you.

Come by the Single Christian Network for all your Christian Dating needs.
Create a profile today and receive Your 5 Day FREE Trial!

Monday, March 12, 2007

Why is it Important to have a Photo on Your Ad?

Any online dating site will tell you that uploading your photo
can increase your chances greatly.


So why is it important to post a photo on your online dating ad?


Here are top 4 reasons:


  • People are more likely to answer your messages

  • You get more responses to your ad

  • You can influence people's opinion about you

  • You appear more credible

  • Now let's consider those four points in more detail.


    1. People are more likely to answer your messages


    Good-looking people (who obviously have photos in their personal
    profiles) receive lots of mail. If you are writing to someone
    attractive and don't have a photo in your profile, your message
    is likely to be ignored.


    2. You get more responses to your ad


    Most members only view ads of members who have photos in their
    profiles. If your profile does not have one, you are not even in
    the search results. Some online dating sites also send newsletters to members with
    ads of new members who joined recently. If your ad does not have
    a photo, you may not make it.


    3. You can influence people's opinion about you


    This is the biggest advantage of all. When people view personal
    ads online, photos are the most interesting part, both for men
    and women. Men mostly look for physical beauty, women for
    personality shining through.


    4. You appear more credible


    When you do not have a photo in your personal ad on the dating
    site, it looks like you are either hiding something or you are
    too lazy to have one taken. Either way, it's not good for your
    success on the dating site. If you are concerned about privacy,
    you can take a photo in sunglasses or from a distance, this will
    be better than having no photo at all.


    Having the right photo in your online dating campaign is crucial.
    It can make a difference between choosing from dozens of people
    competing for your attention and not having a date for the
    Saturday night. Choose a dozen or so photos where YOU like yourself the most, and
    then show them to your friends of the OPPOSITE gender. Usually
    there will be one or two favorites: use them in your Internet
    personals ads.


    People try to figure out your personality by looking at your
    photos. If you appear happy, easygoing, open and warm, they will
    be naturally drawn to you. If you appear stiff, reserved, timid
    and insecure, they will feel repulsed. Look at your photos from
    this point of view, and if your photos don't flatter you, get new
    pictures.


    You can use a webcam or take a photo of yourself with your mobile
    phone camera - this will only take you a couple of minutes. This
    is what most people do. But if you want BETTER than average results, then consider going an extra mile - this always pays off. Spend a day to get the right photos, and you may set up your love affair for life! Don't you think it's worth it?


    Get a friend with a digital camera to take a few hundreds of
    photos of you in different settings. Make sure you are dressed
    neat and stylish, and use open body language (no crossed legs or
    arms, no barriers between you and the viewer, relaxed,
    comfortable pose, and a lovely smile).


    Update your photo in your Internet personals ad and check the
    difference - it can be staggering!

    Friday, March 02, 2007

    Online Christian Dating

    If you are a Christian single, and want to find a good Christian partner it can be a task. To make your life easier you could consider a Christian Dating Service. Christian singles are able to find true love online every day.



    What would be easier than getting yourself a cup of your favorite beverage, and logging in to a Christian dating service looking at the profiles of other Christian singles? Finding other singles in your area while offline can a bit of a search. An online dating service is the perfect place to start interacting with other Christian singles if you have moved to a new area and don’t know anyone.



    They have chat rooms where it's easy to make tons of new friends. Bible study partners are often looked for here, and there’s plenty to learn from the more experienced Christians. Young Christians look to these chat rooms to learn, and discover more about their faith. Again, this is something that can be difficult to do with an online Christian dating service.



    The other advantage you have over meeting Christian Singles without the internet is they are all there looking for friendship or romance. It cuts out all the guessing if someone is actually single. This allows you to use all your effort concentrated on making new friends or finding love interests. Most popular Christian dating services can have up to half a million singles.



    You can find many reviews online for Christian dating services. Once you have read the reviews you'll be in a position to choose where you would like to create a profile. After that you will be allowed to start your free trial, and get to know the service you have chosen. Free trials are a great way to test the service to see what singles they have in your area.



    Once you see a few Christian singles you’re interested in your next step will be contacting them. As a free member you can usually send someone a pre-written message chosen from a list, normally called a flirt or smile. To have more chance of getting to know someone it’s best to send a nice personal e-mail. Once you have upgraded your membership you can start sending e-mails. Most one month memberships cost less than a night out. The advantage of sending an e-mail is you can mention parts of the member's profile in the message. This is a great way to show them that you are paying attention.



    Once you have gotten to know someone online and you want the next step to be your first offline date. If you meet someone that you fall in love with you will remember that you would never had of met them if you hadn’t joined a Christian online dating service.



    Enjoy the Free Trial at this Christian Dating Service: SingleC.com

    Wednesday, February 21, 2007

    Christian Love

    Christian singles involved in online Christian dating services are in desperate need of a reminder to pay attention to what is love, and what is not. The most common misconception members have is that love is feelings and an excitement caused by another single Christian's presence. it is most likely to be infatuation, lust, and self-indulgence. The experience that many Christian singles refer to as love is exactly the opposite.


    There is excitement from a new Christian dating relationship, or just in meeting other single Christians of the opposite sex. This thrill is not love, but the human drive to be connected with another.


    Christian singles need to realize that love is not always fun. The real test of Christian love comes when sacrafices are shared and used to deepen the relationship. If a couple has not have any challenges in their relationship, they have not arrived at the cornerstone to love. It is in the hardships that love begins to mold the two into a real Christian relationship.


    Love is a commitment built upon trust, proven over time to build compatibility and mutually serving interest and growth. It seeks the best possible conditions for the other person’s benefit, sometimes at one’s own expense. It is not selfish, crying for attention, and complaining when things do not go their way.(Corinthians chapter 13)


    Meet Christian Singles at the Single Christian Network

    Tuesday, February 06, 2007

    Check out the Forums!

    Cyber Christian Singles

    A great Christian Forum, meet new friends, do bible studies, do it all!

    Christian Online dating is one of the easiest ways to meet other single Christians. Simply join an online dating site, create an account, and you’re good to go. But there are just a few tips that will make this naturally fun ride a little less bumpy. Here we go!

    Join Now!

    Nothing but the best Christian Dating for Christian Singles.

    Sunday, February 04, 2007

    Online Christian Dating

    If you are a Christian single, and want to find a good Christian partner it can be a task. To make your life easier you could consider a Christian online dating service. Christian singles are able to find true love online every day.


    What would be easier than getting yourself a cup of your favorite beverage, and logging in to a Christian dating service looking at the profiles of other Christian singles? Finding other singles in your area while offline can a bit of a search. An online dating service is the perfect place to start interacting with other Christian singles if you have moved to a new area and don’t know anyone.


    They have chat rooms where it's easy to make tons of new friends. Bible study partners are often looked for here, and there’s plenty to learn from the more experienced Christians. Young Christians look to these chat rooms to learn, and discover more about their faith. Again, this is something that can be difficult to do with an online Christian dating service.


    The other advantage you have over meeting Christians without the internet is they are all there looking for friendship or romance. It cuts out all the guessing if someone is actually single. This allows you to use all your effort concentrated on making new friends or finding love interests. Most popular Christian dating services can have up to half a million singles.


    You can find many reviews online for Christian dating services. Once you have read the reviews you'll be in a position to choose where you would like to create a profile. After that you will be allowed to start your free trial, and get to know the service you have chosen. Free trials are a great way to test the service to see what singles they have in your area.


    Once you see a few Christian singles you’re interested in your next step will be contacting them. As a free member you can usually send someone a pre-written message chosen from a list, normally called a flirt or smile. To have more chance of getting to know someone it’s best to send a nice personal e-mail. Once you have upgraded your membership you can start sending e-mails. Most one month memberships cost less than a night out. The advantage of sending an e-mail is you can mention parts of the member's profile in the message. This is a great way to show them that you are paying attention.


    Once you have gotten to know someone online and you want the next step to be your first offline date. If you meet someone that you fall in love with you will remember that you would never had of met them if you hadn’t joined a Christian online dating service.


    Enjoy this Christian Dating Service: SingleC.com

    Free Trial Here!

    Monday, January 29, 2007

    Make Your Online Dating Personal Ad Great!

    Make Your Online Dating Personal Ad Great!

    New to Online Dating? Trying to find the christian soulmate of your dreams through the web? You need to have a Good Personal Ad or Dating Profile.

    Some people don't believe me when I tell them that most problems with not enough responses to your Ad can be fixed just by writing a better Ad. Check out the profiles on your average online dating site. Start reading out profiles, you won't believe that so many people write such terrible ads! Maybe it is this overvalued notion of writing whatever comes to your mind, letting it flow, being you - which leads you to write gibberish in your ads. Say goodbye to any success in online dating with that. Think what would happen if NASA Engineers became spontaneous?

    So stop your Dating shuttle from crashing and read these examples of common Mistakes in Dating Profiles. Have a laugh, but be careful, your own profile may have bugs too! (All examples are real)

    ..."I am an Honest, Spontaneous, Creative, Intelligent (..other personal adjectives) ...person."

    Very few people think they are not, so this is very subjective (same as the fact that 80% people believe that they have an IQ above average!). Even if true, it is redundant information at best. Avoid using personal adjectives in your Ad or Profile. Define yourself concretely-better to say I am a Guitar player in a Band or I write Novels or I am a practising Doctor than I am Creative or Intelligent.

    .."I am a funny, witty person...."

    Funny and witty people never write that directly. Instead of saying this, add a touch of humor to your profile.

    "I was just bored, so wrote my profile here..."

    A negative attitude. Instead, say, "I am new to this..."

    ..."I am not interested in guys who are bitter and boring..."

    No one is. Use the Ad mostly to tell what you like, not what you don't like. Agreeability is a must have in first introductions.

    ..."I am looking for a REAL man/woman, with all the letters of REAL..."

    Everyone is real. Basically, don't worry, sounds like you have had some bad experiences in relationships, but that's over now. Come with a positive attitude to Online Dating, and just meet the people. Then when you email them and meet them in person, you can decide if they are real or not.

    ..."I like taking walks by the ocean, or watching TV, or going camping with my friends..."

    Unimportant details. Most people like these things, and these are hardly important details in finding a partner (it is unlikely you won't like going out with someone just because they don't like walking the beach or watching TV with you).SingleC.com